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Kayan Mata is an aphrodisiac, taken and/or used to increase sex drive and “love.” Most Kayan Mata recipes contain natural foods or a mixture of fruits, vegetables, nuts, and herbs.
Apart from foods, other Kayan Mata recipe comprises personal effects pieces of jewelry, perfumes, and oils that heighten sexual senses, performance, and attraction.
Kayanmata is a Hausa word that means “Women’s Matter.” Women in northern Nigeria use natural foods and drinks that can enhance sexual desire and performance.
Traditionally, it has been common for mothers to have discussions with their daughters about various aspects of life as they approach marriage, including topics related to intimate relationships. These conversations often cover a range of topics like sex education, expectations, and maintaining a satisfying relationship with one’s spouse. Alongside these discussions, some mothers have been known to provide their daughters with a care package to assist them in their marital journey.
This care package usually consists of items that are thought to improve both the physical and emotional aspects of a relationship. It might contain food items that are known aphrodisiacs, herbs believed to boost libido or overall wellness, oils suitable for massage or aromatherapy, and perfumes that add an alluring element to the marital experience.
The intention behind such care packages is often rooted in cultural or traditional beliefs surrounding marital harmony and satisfaction. They provide guidance and support for the daughter as she transitions into married life, aiming to ensure that she has the tools and resources to cultivate a fulfilling and joyful relationship with her spouse.
Experts in all things Kayan Mata have sworn by the following to intensify things in the bedroom. It comprises a mixture of herbs made into sweets, lubricants, perfumes, makeup, herbs, sweetener powders, and spices.
Popularly known as tiger nut milk, Kunu Aya is a blend of tiger nut, dates, and coconut drink that can help to boost libido. Other fruits, such as watermelon, almond milk, and berries, have also been proven to increase libido and performance.
We can use tiger nut oil as a lubricant. (it is one of the kayanmata for wetness)
At its core, Kayan Mata food and other herbal aphrodisiacs are not a fetish or have the supernatural ability to control. Neither can make anyone fall helplessly in love with whoever eats them.
Whatever attachment and obsession from Kayanmata comes from the enjoyment and satisfaction both patterns get from sex. This is because of the intense libido, lubricated and tasty vagina, and all the benefits above. So basically, they had a good time. When a man goes all out for their partner after sex, it is purely because of intense pleasure and not because there is a supernatural force keeping him/her in check.
Whatever attachment and obsession from Kayanmata emanate from the enjoyment and satisfaction both patterns get from sex because of the intense libido, lubricated and tasty vagina, and all the benefits above. So basically, they had a good time. When a man goes all out for their partner after sex, it is purely because of intense pleasure and not because there is a supernatural force keeping him or her in check.
Instagram marketing and “Kayan Mata influencers” have created a negative outlook on simple fashion accessories, like bracelets and waist beads. So, what exactly do I believe? I believe several foods help increase sexual performance and overall satisfaction; I do not think that bracelets, necklaces, and rings can influence a person. These could be a talisman and other spiritual items. When you think about it, it may be the “new breed” of aphrodisiac because most Kayan Mata recipe contains nothing special or fetish.
Consider common food, perfumes, and smoothies that you can easily find in popular markets in your city to make kayanmata at home easily. A great example is a combination of watermelon, coconut, and milk, or follow the recipe above. However, for more typical Kayanmata and the real deal, it is best to check out Islamic stores, spice stores, or even a kayanmata store in your area.
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